I've thought a lot about this...!

[He seems a little upset, but he calms down quickly.]

I really have...I think about it all of the time. I even tried doing what you just said with the favorite food. It turned out really badly at first...really badly, but I didn't make it obvious that I knew that it was his favorite.

We both were in the swim club, but...swimming was really special to us. I don't want it to trigger a memory.