Isn't it more important that I mind?

[ Why are these the people he attracts? It couldn't just be a nice woman with a strong and firm personality, and wouldn't try bringing out the worst in him. ]

I'm better for not letting that kinda stuff control me the best I can. No matter how things went the last time we met, that's not who I am or who I want to be. So what you're suggesting is probably the worst thing of all.