How nice it is depends on what you're saying and wanting to do.

[ Is deciding on having that marzipan or cannoli really 'not nice' when it's set up for anyone to take? Just for the a relevant and current example, but he has no idea why she thinks it's not nice. ]

I just do what I want and feel like. Seems to work out well enough.

[ Except there's about half a dozen people that hate Judar's existence and/or want to punch him. He's not thinking of that, though. ]